Sexual Incompatibility Is More Common Than You Think

Many couples get freaked out after years of marriage and all of a sudden they feel sexually incompatible. It’s actually really normal in long-term relationships. Sexual incompatibility can pop up after the birth of a child, during menopause, or it can be medically influenced. Sexual incompatibility is also common among military couples who experience long…

5 Ways Tantra Increases Whole Body Healing

When I suggest Tantra to my clients, some of them feel intimidated by the idea. Their mind automatically jumps to crazy sexual positions they’ve seen in Kama Sutra books. They can even feel some performance anxiety and create an unrealistic expectation for taking on this practice.  But, once they understand they can build more intimacy…

5 Benefits of Emotional Intimacy in Your Relationship

When I share that I am an intimacy coach, and I work with couples to help them increase their connection and intimacy levels, people often assume we focus solely on physical intimacy.  The truth of the matter is, if couples want to have increased physical intimacy, they need to focus on building emotional intimacy first….

3 Tips to Bring the Sizzle Back into Your Relationship

I recently taught a class about bringing the sizzle back into our relationships. One of the pitfalls of long-term relationships is that our sex lives can become routine and yes, even boring. Couple lose interest and start to think of their sexual relationship as a duty or obligation. I’m here to say, your sexuality can…

10 Simple Ways to Experience More Pleasure In Your Life

Life just keeps getting busier and busier.  If we are not intentional about experiencing pleasure or joy in our life, we will miss out on all of the little things in life that make life so wonderful! Being mindful of the things that bring us pleasure is the first step to actually experiencing more pleasure…

10 Tips for Creating a Thriving Long Distance Relationship

In today’s tech-savvy world it is easy to meet and fall in love with someone outside of your local community. Technology makes it easy to shrink the distance between two people, but you have to be intentional if you want your relationship to be healthy and survive the distance. I have been in a long…