Sexual Incompatibility Is More Common Than You Think

Many couples get freaked out after years of marriage and all of a sudden they feel sexually incompatible. It’s actually really normal in long-term relationships. Sexual incompatibility can pop up after the birth of a child, during menopause, or it can be medically influenced. Sexual incompatibility is also common among military couples who experience long…

5 Ways Tantra Increases Whole Body Healing

When I suggest Tantra to my clients, some of them feel intimidated by the idea. Their mind automatically jumps to crazy sexual positions they’ve seen in Kama Sutra books. They can even feel some performance anxiety and create an unrealistic expectation for taking on this practice.  But, once they understand they can build more intimacy…

5 Benefits of Emotional Intimacy in Your Relationship

When I share that I am an intimacy coach, and I work with couples to help them increase their connection and intimacy levels, people often assume we focus solely on physical intimacy.  The truth of the matter is, if couples want to have increased physical intimacy, they need to focus on building emotional intimacy first….

5 Steps to Create a Sexually Empowered Life

One of the questions I’m routinely asked is, “How do I create a sexually empowered life?” It seems every woman wants one, but it’s a mystery about what it might look like or the steps one needs to take to create it. The #metoo movement has women talking more openly about past sexual traumas and…

3 Tips to Bring the Sizzle Back into Your Relationship

I recently taught a class about bringing the sizzle back into our relationships. One of the pitfalls of long-term relationships is that our sex lives can become routine and yes, even boring. Couple lose interest and start to think of their sexual relationship as a duty or obligation. I’m here to say, your sexuality can…

Castles and Masquerade Parties

This morning I was reflecting on my personal growth journey. When I look back at who I was growing up, I am unrecognizable. My thoughts and dreams are so different from when I was a little girl. I grew up in a home where performance and perfectionism were required for love and acceptance. That lead…

3 Tips for Building Sexual Intimacy in Your Relationship

Great sex doesn’t just happen. It takes time to learn your partner’s desires and turn-ons.  It also takes time to understand and acknowledge your partner’s mindset about sex. Men and women are wired differently, and it’s important to take those differences into consideration. One of the most significant roadblocks to great sex is the inability…

Journaling for Self-Discovery

Last year, I joined a six-week boot camp that a coaching friend was putting on. I agreed to join the group because I wanted to support her, but little did I know the fire that would be ignited in my soul. I have always been a proponent of personal development. I have been an avid…

5 Tips for Self-Discovery

Many people would rather watch television or spend time with people they don’t like to avoid being alone. The fear of being alone or experiencing loneliness is a topic we don’t often discuss openly. If we own up to feeling lonely, we might be perceived as being weak or vulnerable.   In our technology-rich society,…

Self-Pleasure Yay or Nay? Easy Tips For Beginners

I recently taught a class on your sexuality and you. It was an introductory session to get a feel of how comfortable people were with their own sexuality and what types of things were taboo. We all are conditioned through our environment via our family, religion or culture.  We tend to adopt beliefs based on…